Slow down, Look up, and find Gratitude

This morning I came across a video. It was the reminder of what I actually needed right now. It’s such a busy time. I have so many things that I keep telling myself that need to get done. 

Client work,  statements to complete and review, emails to send out, invites to my upcoming programs, sponsors to find for my planners, unpacking from my trip last week, laundry, cleaning the house and finally decorating the tree and putting up the lights. 

It’s so easy to get caught up in it all. 

It can also be an emotional time of year. Missing those who I want to be with who have passed on or are just not available emotionally or physically or just live too far away to make time together possible. 

It can become easy to get stuck in overwhelm or retreat into myself or hide in work or fall down the social media rabbit hole as an escape. 

So that’s why this video I watched was just what I needed today. It was a reminder to focus on what is most important. That gratitude and happiness come from looking up. 

Look up and connect

Look up and serve

Look up and be present

Look up and find hope

Look up and choose to be grateful

Yesterday I had to cut my work day short to fulfill a promise to our son. It was so tempting to say I just can’t go, you’ll have to go without me. I have too much work to do. 

For the first 30 minutes or more I struggled with focusing on everything that still needed to be done and when would I be able to do it and feeling guilty that I hadn’t replied to clients and the links and payment processing weren’t working and I hadn’t finished my newsletter. On and on and on. I was stuck in the loop. 

But as I became more present to my son, his friend and my husband and the time we were spending together, slowly I began to decompress. 

I was able to enjoy sharing food together, shopping for gifts, a walk in the park to see the christmas lights and warm hot chocolate. 

I was looking up, feeling grateful and creating happy memories that have sustained me into the next day, have given me hope and reminded me of what is most important, who I love and that I am loved. 

I hope that you can also slow down, look up from all you do and find the things that make you happy, grateful and hopeful during this time of year. 

And if you need a reminder or know someone who else who does, you can watch the video here.

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